The Graves Gang

NEW RING

2011-02-10T22:08:00.000-08:00

Imagine our disappointment when we realized that our 25th wedding anniversary reception was going to have to be cancelled due to the weather and road conditions..... 125 invitations had been sent out. I was pretty sad by it but we received phone calls, cards and etc... from our friends and loved ones letting us know they were thinking about us. 3 friends even came out of Madison county braving the roads to get here. Our hearts were touched.

This is the ring that my dear hubby - whom I still think of as "the man of my dreams" 25 years later came me for our 25th wedding anniversary! Needless to say I totally LOVE IT!!

Although the day didn't go as planned we are still so thankful that we were able to spend it together!

"SNOW" much f-u-n!!!

2011-01-03T14:55:00.001-08:00

This year for Christmas we bought Kapriel a digital camera -- she LOVES it! It has alot of built in frames in it as well as games... only problem is we have to be careful.....she is always clicking away! Glad she is so happy with gift!

25th coming UP

2010-12-22T19:57:00.000-08:00

Okay, So this photo is sideways and I am not real computer savy --- please turn your head to view it...sorry! February 6th, 2011 will be our 25th wedding anniversary - I don't have to tell you how impossible that seems. We had our photo taken for our invitations. We have decided to have our get together at our house - cause its what says the most about us! We have 100 on our list so far to invite --- we have been blessed with so many precious family and friends! I am having a blast planning it....... my main concern is the weather --- I just pray it doesn't snow and/or ice.. It will be on Sunday 2/6/11 from 2-4p! On Tuesday we will leave for a 4 day stay in Hot Springs.... So excited! :)

Just Me

2010-12-20T19:54:00.000-08:00

Today I spent alot of time thinking about my momma. With Christmas only a few days away my mind keeps going back to when I was a child and how our holidays were always so filled with family and with love. March will be 2 years since she went to Heaven but I still find myself going to the phone to call her and share something with her. Daddy still has a difficult time ... I remind him as I remind myself that momma wouldn't come back to earth even if she could - she is happy and only has goodness where she is ..... only for selfish reasons do we wish it. It makes me feel better to know that now she can take full breaths, she has no pain nor suffering, no more chemo, radiation, being stuck with needles. These thoughts are what gets me thru each day.

Let the Summer Fun Begin

2010-06-10T14:15:00.000-07:00

Pools Open - Time for summer
Kyla & Kapriel having some summer fun!!

Tana going off the slide.....

We love having a pool in our backyard....it provides hours & hours of entertainment. Not to mention after mowing the lawn for 2 hours how wonderful it is to go cool off!

Cousins - BFF

2010-03-21T17:27:00.000-07:00

Chance & Damon

are 4 months apart... Chance born in July & Damon in November. These boys have been more like "brothers" than cousins. Before they hit the teen years they practically were together 24/7 in the summer & on the weekends... Riding 4-wheelers, fishing, playing games etc... As with anything as they get older they have less time to hang out and just enjoy life. When they do get to spend time together it is greatly enjoyed... Cousins but also BFF's...

Senior Year

2010-02-16T16:41:00.000-08:00

How can it be that the sweet little boy I carried in my tummy for 8 months & 1 week is now 17 years old, a senior in high school and WAYYYY taller than I am. I remember crying the day he started kindergarten & thankful that the year 2010 was so far away.... I am not ready for it to be here but he is... I can't imagine getting ready for work each morning & not going in to tell him to "get ready for school" I'm certainly going to miss that part of our lives. Jeff & I are so proud of him...he has many decisions to make but he has made the most important one to have God as a part of his life.
Seems like I do alot of looking at photos - crying, laughing and smiling.... You have grown into an awesome young man bubby but you will always be "my baby"
I love you!
Mom

This is what....

2010-01-15T15:29:00.000-08:00

strep-throat looks like. Last month Chance complained of a sore throat...it was red & had white spots on it so I took him to the doctor thinking "strep" but the doctor did a throat culture & it came back negative & said he had a virus... The next morning he woke up & it looked worse. So, we head back to the doctor, another throat culture & another $35.00 & this time less that 24 hours laterit came back positive....

He was given 7 different medications to take... Amoxeilion[sp] at TOTAL of 3000 mg a day so yes of course his stomach was upset. Normally, this momma would throw in some chicken noodle soup but my sick baby wanted potato soup which I was happy to make for him.

2010-01-08T14:24:00.000-08:00

2010
It's a new year. I don't know about you, but I'm ready for it. 2009 was such a rough year that I honestly don't think I'm ready for any disappointment quite yet. I'd much rather twenty ten be a year of God's outpouring love & blessing so instead of making a list of things I'm going to do, I thought I'd make a list of things that I will not stop doing in 2010.

I will not pretend I'm super mom.

I will not stop crafting.

I will not stop loving the Target $1 aisle.

I will not stop blogging, although I won't promise that it will be daily.

I will not stop wishing I had a maid & a cook.

I will not let life get me down

I will not be afraid of being real

I will not stop reading.

I will not stop eating dessert.

I will not stop wishing I could sleep more.

I will not be afraid to be me.

I will not stop making spontaneous purchaes.

I will not stop eating cookies for breakfast.

So what will you not do in 2010?

Bringing in 2010

2010-01-07T06:33:00.001-08:00

It has been a tradition in my family for at least 40 years that on New Years Eve we all meet at one of our houses [my parents, aunts/uncles took turns hosting each year] bring tons of food to snack on & play "pitch" as we bring in the New Year. It is always such a blessing to spend time with family.

Daddy & Damon playing cards...
Chance & Damon acting "tough"

Madison, Chelsea & Kapriel had a great time playing Barbies

Kyla, Dana & DaltonWe had 3 tables of "pitch players" going ...

& of course we had Mr. Damon in his impressive hat... NOT

I hope everyone has an awesome 2010.... How does your family bring in the New Year?

3 Generations

2009-12-12T10:17:00.000-08:00

It's hard to believe that my daughter has a 7 year old daughter of her own. The older 'lil Miss Kapriel McKenzie gets the more I fall in love with her and the day she was born I didn't think I could love her anymore.

I see so much of her momma in her - she has curly beautiful hair, dark brown eyes and freckles..She can be quick to get an "attitude" but just as quick to bless your heart.

Just as all of children - my grandchild brings me many blessings and great joy!

Thankful = Blessed

2009-12-05T11:52:00.000-08:00

I love my family... I love being a mom. I love My Heavenly Father for allowing me these 6 blessings.

Thanksgiving 2009 was a hard one this year...our first without my momma...I know she was looking down on us ...we made it thru the day but oh how we wish she could have been here.

Summer Vacation

2009-07-27T20:44:00.000-07:00

Every summer when the kids go to camp - Jeff & I take a week of vacation and enjoy the time together. This year we went to "Beaver Lake Front Cabins" in Eureka Springs. It was very private and our cabin was wonderful. The peace & tranquality of the place was just want our souls needed. It is something that we look forward to every year! Thank you Heavenly Father for allowing us to spend this time together as we draw closer to you.

They Got it ....

2009-06-27T21:38:00.000-07:00

My dad is very allergic to mosquitoes.... a few years ago while sitting on hit front porch - he smacked a mosquitoe.... a few months later he had a very small red bump come up...over the years it started to grow... A few weeks ago I made him a doctor appointment...Dr. Bonner informed us that he thought is was skin cancer - he had a biosopy on it and it did come back as skin cancer - we went to see Dr. Wood who explained everything he would do during the surgery.. what was suppose to have taken 15 minutes ended up being 55 minutes as it was alot deeper than he orignally thought.... daddy ended up with 19 stitches and will have quite the little scar ... they had to take a flap of his skin and form it to cover the hole... We just PRAISE GOD that Dr. Wood was able to get IT ALL. It was such a blessing to hear those words and to know once again just how our Heavenly Father hears and answers our prayers.

My Daddy....

2009-06-20T19:25:00.000-07:00

Is trying SOOO hard to be strong... he still misses my momma so much. It breaks my heart sometimes just to look at him. I can't even imagine loosing my soul mate... We try our best to keep him busy but I know it doesn't take away the pain. Please keep him in your prayers... We know only God is the only one that can truly bring about healing.

Devil's Den State Park

2009-06-19T22:32:00.000-07:00

The boys enjoying their "picnic dinner"
Chance, Kapreil & Addison on the paddle boats... They loved this!

2 weeks ago after church we took a trip over to Devil's Den for "something different to do" - We were lucky to grab the last picnic available -- enjoyed some good 'ole sandwiches & chips. Afterwards the kids played on the playground for a bit than off to the paddle boats. Kapriel was a little scared to get on at first but Uncle Chance assured her that it was fun! They had a blast!!!

My cup runneth ..... OVER

2009-06-16T18:11:00.000-07:00

There are no words to truly express how blessed I am to be married to my best friend for 23 years. He still does the "little things" that touch my heart. The other night when I got home he was already in bed asleep... I tip toe to my side of the bed to & take my glasses off to put them on my night stand only to that - "that spot has been taken" I get the flash light to see what is there and find that on his way home from work he stopped at Harp's & bought a package of candy kisses and put them in my favorite yellow coffee mug and put them on my night stand. Is that not precious or what?

Thank you Heavenly Father for creating my soul mate & for bringing us together.
May we continue to grow in your love & may it glorify you.

My GIRL...

2009-06-15T13:55:00.001-07:00

Jeff & I love the summer for MANY - MANY reasons but I think the very first one would be our precious grand-daughter gets to spend it with us. We have so much fun with her & can't believe that she is already 7....

Last Year....

2009-06-14T12:42:00.000-07:00

I have been carrying around a box of kleenex for the past week ... Chance is going to be a SENIOR this year.... I keep thinking geez.... WHERE has the time gone.... 17 years ago I was carrying him around in my tummy.... NOW he is a SENIOR, drives, doesn't need me to "baby" him anymore.... I also feel sad because I know how much momma would have loved to see him graduate... she was so proud of the girls when they did & took so many pictures....

He doesn't even come close to realizing how much his life will change after his SENIOR YEAR... but I guess that is the beauty of youth!!!

Enjoy your year "my little man" --- you deserve it!

How Much Longer....

2009-04-30T17:18:00.001-07:00

Until the pain of not having your here - doesn't take my breath away...

Until my daddy doesn't cry almost non stop from missing you...

Until I quit going to the phone to call you - only upon dialing realize you won't answer...

Until seeing something I know you would like - but can't share with you, hearing something I know you would think funny & hear you laugh, smelling something that brings back a memory of a time we shared....

Until seeing "Mother's Day Gifts" in the store won't remind me that I can't get you a gift this year...

Until walking into my "childhood home" & not feeling gut punched because you aren't sitting there in your favorite chair...

Until I no longer feel like I have to be the "strong & encouraging one" for those around me - because I know it is what you would want me to be...

Until I don't cry myself to sleep anymore ...

Until I don't feel like I have to go to the gravesite every Saturday & stand by your grave & cry out for you my precious MOMMA...

How much longer ... How much longer.... How much longer.... UNTIL THIS PAIN GOES AWAY..

Living A Dream...

2009-03-27T18:36:00.000-07:00

Jeff's chest-a-drawers. We will be putting a mirror up tomorrow that matches the picture a few photos down.

My dresser! Love it...

Corners in the room! Love it! The walls are "Cowslip" - Kinda of a buttery cream. The ceiling trim & baseboards are white!

I love this photo - The matching mirror I received from my former boss & it will be placed above Jeff's chest-a-drawers.

Ahhhhhh. My favorite. I love this big bed... It's sooo super comfy .... The comforter, pillows, sheets, pillowcases I got from J.C Penny's...

Opps.... I told 'ya I love it.... Didn't mean to post it twice tho!

My night stand - It only came with one so we have ordered another one - hopefully it will be here by the end of next week! The wood floor is another favorite - it looks so much better than the yucky ole brown grody carpet!

This is the view to our bedroom as we walk out of the master bath...

I am soooo pleased with the way the room turned out - Please leave me a comment & let me know what you think!!!

Goodbye Cowboy Boot Brown , Sleigh Furniture...

2009-03-26T14:44:00.001-07:00

GOODBYE 'Ole Bed... Cowboy Boot Paint HEllo Cowslip Buttery Cream

It's remodeling time at our house --- about the only room left in the whole house we haven't done is our masterbedroom and bath.... SOOOOOOOOO.... as of today...

Goodbye

cowboy boot brown wall, sleigh bed, pine chester drawers, dresser, night stand, UGLY-UGLY brown carpet.....

HELLO-

Cowslip buttery cream walls, white trim, gorgeous bedspread, curtains, awesome new bedroom furniture, new wood floors.... AWWWW... I am so loving it...

I'll post photos when we are totally finished.... Better get back to helping put down the floors...

A beautiful day

2009-03-17T16:42:00.000-07:00

Today the sun shining was so great! It was nice to get out of the house and just walk around & be able to praise God for all of his glory. It is comforting to know that my momma is in heaven & enjoying all of its beauty as well.

Kapriel is on spring break this week - it has been a blessing to have her here with us and help us keep our mind on her & not dwell as much on our loss.

I hope everyone has enjoyed today as much as I have.

God Bless

Thank You...

2009-03-12T19:43:00.000-07:00

I would just like to Thank everyone that has lifted my family up in prayer this past week... it has been very hard & I just want you to know that the prayers are helping. Just when I feel like I can't go on - I feel a gentle nudge and a peace & I know that God has me wrapped in his hands.

I want to share the poem that I wrote for my momma...

I can't see you
But I know you're here
I carry my memories
In my heart - very near.
I miss you with every breath
And your precious face
There is no one that could ever
Take your place.
A childhood of memories
By a life so blessed
Being your daughter
Is simply the best.
Your with Jesus now momma
Your body is whole
But it doesn't make it any easier
To let you go.
You gave me everything
You gave me life
You were my momma
And my daddy's wife.
In God I find comfort
Just as you did
Peace comes from knowing
And being a Kings Kid.
I'll see you again
My goal - Heaven Bound
You'll know I'm coming
By my "halleuiah" sound.
Flutter your angel wings
Eat brownies galore
Rest peacefully now my momma
Your inside Heaven's door.
Teresa "Sissy"
3-6-09

I will remember you....

2009-03-07T15:10:00.000-08:00

My momma went to her eternal home in heaven on Thursday morning, March 6, 2009 at 4:39a.m. after a long and couragious battle with cancer.

She was surrounded by my dad, my brother, my aunt, a special friend, Ms. Betty,a grand-daughter, my husband & myself. We held her hand & prayed for her as she departed this world. We know she is in a much better place - but we struggle with not having her here. I already miss so many things about her...

Please pray for strength, comfort & peace for my daddy. They were married for 48 years - his heart is truly broken.

Visitation will be on Monday, March 9th from 5-7p at Moore's Funeral Home
Funeral services will be on Tuesday, March 10th @ 10a at Black Oak Church of Christ.

My First Award....

2009-03-01T00:52:00.001-08:00

Thanks to my friend, Tammy - I received my first blogging award -- I wasn't prepared so I don't have a speech prepared but I will say I humbly accept it with pride!!!

List 7 things that you love and then pass the award on to 7 people...tagging them and letting them know they won! You can copy the picture of the award and put it on your sideboard letting the whole wide world know you are KReATIV

1. My Heavenly Father

2. My precious family --- my awesome husband, my 8 children, 1 grandchild, 2 dogs & 2 turtles

3. My arts/craft room

4. My parents

5. My house & pool

6. My life

7. Flea-markets, Thrift Stores, Yard-Sales

Now, I am going to tag

1. Kyla

2. Kayla

3. Krystal

4. Amy

5. Tara

6. Jessica

Have Fun!!!

My baby is ready!!!

2009-02-26T17:25:00.000-08:00

Introducing my Valentine Present from my dear husband

Mr. Talen Drake

born on January 11, 2009 to Doodle Bug & Billy Jack

I just love his little face & how he follows me around. His little nose twitches like a bunny rabbits. He is just oh so adorable!!!

OMG!!

2009-02-24T19:50:00.001-08:00

I got home from work tonight and look what my sweet-sweet husband had waiting for me on my pillow!!! SURPRISE!!! Peep Ducks & Whopper Robin Eggs.... 2 of my very favorites --- a sign that spring is getting closer not to mention how good they are!!! He is such a sweetheart - Thank you Heavenly Father for the blessing of my husband, his gentle loving nature & the love that he shows me. It truly is the little things that make it all worth while!! :)

I need Your HELP...

2009-02-23T14:13:00.000-08:00

Hey Ladies,

I need your help - please! A really sweet friend of mine, Glenda M. is just getting started as a consultant with Mary Kay - she has ask me to help her by booking a class - she is in a contest of 30 faces in 30 days where she does make overs on 30 people.

I am SO excited for her and told her I would love to help her get started!!!

My class to help her will be on Thursday, March 5th at 6:30 at my house.

There is NO obligation to buy anything - just please come, enjoy some snacks, get a free mini make over & she will be off to a running good start. There will be catalogs and products to order IF you are interested but that is strickly up to you --- this is just a class to help her get started and WIN THE CONTEST!!!

PLEASE - PLEASE Post a comment AND LET ME KNOW IF YOU WILL or WON'T BE ABLE TO COME!!!

If you can't come but would like to see a catalog or book a class from her - I know she would appreciate it.

Us ladies have to stick together!!! Can't wait to hear from you!!!!

HE PASSED!!!!

2009-02-21T11:58:00.001-08:00

Chance took his drivers permit test almost 2 weeks ago and failed by a 72% - Jeff & I both told him that he needed to spend more time studying but I guess there is just something about being a teenage boy & cool.... that he just couldn't quite get it into his routine.... well after he "failed" he was heart broken - how I wanted to take that hurt from him but a life lesson learnt & I did notice that this time around the drivers book was almost like his new best friend!!! We went again this past Tuesday and HE PASSED WITH AN 84%.... WHOOT...WHOOT... We went to Granny's Kitchen in Huntsville to celebrate. I am happy for him but the momma part of my heart is sad.... my baby is growing up and with that comes less of a need for me. On a lighter note -Anyone that wants advance warning when he is going to be driving on the road -- let me know.. hehe

Cancer Changes Everything

2009-02-16T08:26:00.001-08:00

As most of you know my precious momma was diagnoised with small cell lung cancer almost 4 years ago - it has now spread to her liver. Hospice has been called in - my entire family is struggling with what we know is coming that will forever change our life. Sometimes I have to remind myself to breath and than when I do - it is a gut punch... I had no earthly ideal that one person could cry so much. My momma has put up a strong and courages fight and I am so proud of her but I can tell that her little body is getting weaker. She said that she doesn't want to die but either way she will be okay - you see I take GREAT comfort in that because my momma is a very devoted Christan - she has been all of her life. I have no doubt that when she passes from this earth she will be with our Heavenly Father. Some days are harder than others for us - I am finding that the days I can't be especially strong - than someone else in the family is and they lift me up or visa versa... God is good that way - we have no doubt that thru all of this he is there gently holding us up. Please remember my momma and daddy in your prayers thru out the day - & evening if we are learning one thing right now --- take the time to be with the ones you love, tell them you love them and cherish each and every moment. God Bless You

Happy Birthday Bren - "DAWG"

2009-02-15T11:36:00.001-08:00

Today Bren-"DAWG" turns 12 --- it is hard to believe that this is the same little boy that came to live with us when he was just 2 years old... We have seen alot of changes in him in the 10 year period. He still struggles with many things but he has a true heart of gold. He is an inspiration to many to not ever give up - HAPPY HAPPY Birthday to you - our "Tex", "Grandpa", " Lil Man", "Booger" & most importantly "D-A-W-G" - you rock our world!!!

Valentine KING

2009-02-13T15:55:00.000-08:00

King Carl Hutchins

First off let me begin by saying that my grandfather is a 86 year old patient at a local nursing home. He was married to my sweet-sweet grandmother for 55 years until she went to be with the Lord on 6/20/00 - my daddy is an only child - he married my precious momma almost 48 years ago and they had my brother & myself... Being the ONLY grand-daughter I was very-very close to my grandmother - I say with pride that she spoiled me rotten! Every single time I go to see my grandfather - I am a rememberance of Grandma & he cries.... he had a stroke almost 5 years ago and is not able to talk & does not have the use of his right arm or leg. My grandpa is the only grandparent that I have left on this earth - he is very special to me. I feel guilty that with my busy life I don't spend as much time with him as I should - this week I vowed to change that. When I arrive he cries, while I am there he cries & when I leave he cries... the whole time saying "day - oh - day" which he means "Stay All Day" It breaks my heart - but grandpa I am going to start "Day Oh Day" with you several times a month in addition to other little mini visits.

The nursing home called yesterday and said that grandpa was chosen "Mr. Valentine King" -- he won this by receiving the most votes from the nursing staff and patients. When they called his name - he just grinned - & of course started to cry. It was just to adorable. Before his stroke he was very much a "Manly Man" & as tough and grough as they come -- He was very honored by this award today - and I am so proud of my "Grandpa the King"

23 years...

2009-02-07T13:36:00.000-08:00

On February 6, 1986 I became Mrs. Jeff Graves.... Jeff was in the Army stationed in Germany - he arrived back in the states on Feb. 5th,1986 & we were married the next day at Baptist Ford Church in Greenland, Ar... we left on 2/7 headed to Augusta, Georgia where he was staioned at Ft. Gordon. We lived there for 3 years until he got out of the Army. I totally love looking at this photo - I thought I couldn't love him anymore but I look at it now and realize just how young we really were... [23 & 25] if someone would have told me I was wrong that I would love him more - in fact everyday and that we would be the parents of 8 kids [5 adopted] I think we both would have cracked up laughing! I had so much fun planning our wedding & reception - he could only call me on Saturday mornings so I tried to cram all I could in those phone conversations....I wrote him daily. The letters we have saved from the 9 months he was in Germany are boxeand put away.... Priceless and precious are these

Flash forward 23 years later - Mr. & Mrs. Jeff Graves.... older, a little chunkier and still just as in LOVE... the parents of 8, pap-paw & Gigi to a 6 year old... We are so blessed. When I woke up this morning I told Jeff I really didn't "feel that old"

This is what was waiting for us when we checked into our room -- the chocolate chip cookies were on our bed!!! YUM-YUM!!!

Jeff waiting on me to get ready before he takes me to dinner!!

This bed was super comfortable -- Jeff has promised to build me a headboard like this! The room was TOTALLY GORGEOUS!!! The amr. is another favorite in the room!

This is the breakfast we had delivered to our room this morning ---ohmygosh ... the chocolate cros. were to die for!!!

I got Jeff 3 gifts...a pair of tennis shoes he had been wanting, the E.S.V Bible & I made him this little can - on the top of it - it says "23 Things I Love" .... - in the inside I listed 23 reasons I love him sooooo very much!! I think it was his favorite. He bought me a GORGEOUS ring w/ 6 heart shaped diamonds in it --- It is being sized and when I get it back - you can bet I will post a photo of it.

This wraps up our 23 year anniversary - it was such a precious day we spent -- we took the day off from work, went Flea Marketing all day, ate at Denny's, Mamma Z's, Lone Star.... The memories will be priceless..... I am now working on planning our 25th.... it will be a blow out as we are planning on re-newing our vows.... than off to Cancun!!! :)

Random Things...

2009-02-01T16:23:00.001-08:00

Today has been one of those days --- it was over before it started and I am sitting here wondering just WHERE did the day go - WHAT did people see in me today? WAS - I an example for Christ?? I don't deal well with change - I like a routine, my feathers not ruffled... School has not been in session since last Monday and I liked the routine of sleeping until 9, working on my arts/crafts, hanging out with my family - TOMORROW we go back to school - along with that comes the busy, hecktic pace... I realize that I truly do have so many things to be thankful for!~
Thank you Jesus!

Here are 4 more notebooks I made!!!

Chance cooking on the front porch during the Ice-Storm!!! Yummy!!!

Lemon Sugar Cookies w/ Royal Icing!!! Super YUMMY!!!!

2009-01-31T08:47:00.000-08:00

This is the tree out behind our pool area - it is now laying on flat on the ground...

This is the picture out of our bedroom window - hanging off the roof! My favorite!

Praise the Lord we were only out of electricity for about 26 hours - my parents are still without it. It's really an eye opener when you stop & realize just how much our life revolves around flipping on a light switch, pressing the remote control button! We were in bed almost as soon as it got dark - our house is all electric and it got cold quickly. Several times I heard the girls saying "This is just like Little House on the Prairie" We went to Dollar General & stocked up on canned foods [V. Weenies, Potted Meat, Canned Ham etc] bought a b.b.q grilled and cooked supper on the porch in weather in the teens... It was crazy and fun... I think my favorite part was being out of school - I love my job of 19 years but to just be home - not having to worry about going somewhere, no routines and schedules was a much needed relief - & like I told the kids in 6 months from now we'll be hanging out in our back yard -- I CAN'T WAIT...

CRAFTS...CRAFTS...EVERYWHERE!!!

2009-01-26T13:14:00.000-08:00

"D" for Destiny -- this is a little wall plaque to hang on her nursery wall!

TuTu w/ Onsie Baby Carrier Wipes

Footstool & Closeup of Footstool

Here are some crafts I made for 'lil Miss Destiny Nicole Brannan's babyshower!!! I have so much fun doing them!!!

Something is always....

2009-01-25T10:45:00.000-08:00

in the oven at our house!!! Momma called Wednesday & said she was craving some homemade Chicken Corn Don Blue.... So, I [yes, I said I....] put on my Betty Crocker apron and just whipped it right up! I think pounding the chicken was equivalent to a full hour gym workout! WHEW...

Jeff always talks about the "Sunday Afternoon PotRoast" his Grandma Spearman use to make so I [yes, Note AGAIN I said I] stopped at Harp's got the biggest roast I could find - cut up 3 pounds of potatoes, added some carrots, celery, onions and beef boult. cubes and stuck this monster in the oven. It smelt so good when we walked in from church...

I also made some "Lemon Sugar Cookies" with royal icing but couldn't get the photo to down-load... Yes, I know I am turning into quite the Little Miss Suzie Homemaker!!! :) Whoot..Whoot!!!

Look Who Is....

2009-01-24T07:50:00.000-08:00

wrapped around her little finger.......

I love the precious relationship between Kapriel & her "pap-paw"

Where you see Jeff - you will see Kapriel. She follows him thru the house all day long -

& I bet we must hear "pap-paw" 100 times a day! It is so sweet.

It blesses me to know that this little girls "pap-paw" will teach her Godly ways!

Look what is for ....

2009-01-23T11:29:00.000-08:00

breakfast at our house each weekend....

Jeff loves to cook & Saturday morning breakfasts are always a treat at our house. This past weekend he made us homemade waffles with chocolate chip ice-cream, 2 scoops of cool whip - chocolate drizzles & a cherry on top! Can you say GOOD!!! :)

Kapriel waiting to dig in-!!! Notice the extra cherries - yes, her pap-paw spoils her!!!

This is HARPER

2009-01-22T16:24:00.000-08:00

This is Harper -- isn't she just gorgeous in her little dress!! Such a sweetie!!!

More Arts/Crafts....

2009-01-22T16:01:00.000-08:00

These were some of the projects I made this weekend.... I didn't take photos of all of them - these were just a few of my favs... The first 2 are notepads...the last is a "Doggie Poop Bag" [you put doogie poo bags in it & can take it w/ you when you take your dogs for walk at the park etc...] I had a blast making all of them. If you are interested in ordering in for yourself or as gifts for friends etc... Let me know!!! I think Jeff is ready for spring to get here so I can put some of this energy outside working in the flower beds.... He said if it stays cooler much longer he is going to go broke... haha

Who I...

2009-01-15T17:38:00.000-08:00

am blessed to begin & end my day with..

Soon I will be married to this precious man [2/6] for 23 years & every day he continues to amaze me :

By his love - it is never ending & still gives me the warm fuzzies...

His patience - With 8 kids, 1 grand-daughter, 2 dogs & 2 turtles it is abundant...

His understanding - trust me I can do alot of "crazy things"...

His gentle nature - the most comfortable feeling..

His strength - he is my solid rock

His Faith - his devotion & love for our Heavenly Father is an example for our whole family

Alot of people ask me "how we can work together & be around each other 24/7" which we have done for the past 4 years and I can honestly tell you - it just blesses my soul to be with him. I can't imagine anyone I would rather be with than the man of my dreams. I can't even begin to tell you how much I love being his wife and the mother of his children. With him I have so many priceless memories and I don't want a day to ever go by without him knowing how much I really do love him. Where all this is coming from - I don't know but today God has just laid it on my heart to really stop and realize what he is blessed me with & Lord, I do & I thank you!

Wing Eating Contest

2009-01-11T17:22:00.000-08:00

All day Sunday "the boys" kept hinting around that they wanted me to cook them some "Hot Wings" I went down to Harps and bought 3 huge packages of Wings & made them "hot", "super hot" and "hotter than heck" Here is Jeff getting started... You see I made them each take 1 out of the different bowls and try them - but I wouldn't tell them which was which...

Here what "the boys" sat down to... 3 different types of wings w/ 3 different types of dipping sauce.

Jeff deciding which one to try first...

Enjoy boyz...

WHEW... Think their mouths are on fire!

Jeff 's plate is on the left - Chance's on the right ... You choose the winner.... :)

What I've been working on!

2009-01-08T16:10:00.000-08:00

When the weather turns cool - the crafting bug hits BIG TIME at my house! I seriously think I could craft 24/7... I've started making tutu's and personalized onsies as gifts, sold a few, for babyshowers etc... I love doing them! Made more headbands, got out the paints and made Chuy and Sam a sign for their kennel door, personalized an album for Addie who is due in February and painted a canvas for her nursery as well! Let me know what you think!

????

2009-01-07T20:36:00.000-08:00

Who is reading my blog from Sheridan Arkansas? I think I know WHO YOU ARE.... Post a comment - if I don't hear from you I am going to go to a "Private Blog" and only those that are invited will be able to view!!!

"Poop Happens"

2009-01-05T19:54:00.000-08:00

Poor Rhyver Faith - She was outside playing w/ her brothers and sisters & all of a sudden they all come running in laughing their heads off - with Rhyver being the last one in... Look very close at her forehead & her nose.... YEP, You guessed right - a bird was flying over and POOPED on her face. I tried very hard to be sympathetic & tried to use my "Mommy 101 Skills" but it was just to much!! I cracked up laughing as well... Luckily she joined in - I'm not sure just WHAT the odds would be for this to happen - but it was definately worth the photo opt!!!

Meet My Grandson[s]

2009-01-04T14:38:00.000-08:00

I know that someday Kyla will bless me with some awesome grandchildren but for now these 2 are her babies ... a.k.a as "my grandsons" . They are good boys and fun when they come to visit! Although I will admit I don't care much for their kisses for now these "grandsons" will have to do!

FIRE!!!!

2009-01-03T16:33:00.001-08:00

Jeff sent Chance out this morning to "burn the trash" - about 30 minutes later I went to the postoffice to pick up our Netflick movies... when I got back everyone was running out to the back yard yelling "FIRE...FIRE"... Chance didn't get all the ashes smothered out & well you know what happens when that occurs...

Thankfully we were able to contain it to one area without calling the Fire Department or burning everything in sight down... Let me tell you we were on our knees praising God after we realized things were going to be okay!

Jeff & Chance pouring water from trash barrels onto the fire!

Trying to keep it contained to just one area. Once it was all said & done - we were all exhausted, smelled like smoke and ready for the shower! Thank you Father - for keeping our home safe, our family safe and for always knowing what we need! We give you the praise, the honor and the glory.

New Year's Survey - What's Yours?

2009-01-02T23:10:00.000-08:00

What did you do in 2008 that you had never done before? I opened a consignment clothing store but had to close it in November due to back problems!
Did you keep your previous New Year's resolutions, and will you make new ones for next year? I kept some of them and my new resolution is to just get fit & be healthy.
Did anyone you know give birth? Yes& 6 more due this year!
Did anyone close to you die? Yes-My precious grandmother
What countries did you visit? None
What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008? To be more spiritual
What date from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? March 1 - my grandmother went to be w/the Lord
What was your biggest achievement of the year? Not going insane from having 6 kids, 2 dogs, 2 turtles & a husband in the house... JUST KIDDING!!!
Did you suffer from illness or injury? Yes - Broken bone in my back
What was the best thing you bought? Any of the arts/crafts in my already overstuffed/crowded craft room!
Did your behavior change over the year? Yes, and I think for the better
Where did most of your money go? House & Car
What did you get really excited about? Going on vacation w/ my husband,son & grand-daughter
Compared to this time last year, are you Richer or poorer? Think I am about the same
Did you fall in love? I've been in love w/ the man of my dreams since high school!
What was your favorite TV program? House
What was the best book you read? The Power of a Positive Mom by Karol Ladd
What was your favorite film of the year? Step-Brothers
Thinner or fatter? 20 pounds thinner but 30 more to go
What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 47 - Jeff made birthday dinner for me & we celebrated w/ my family
What one thing made your year immeasurably more satisfying? Just the love of my family & friends
How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008? COMFORTABLE
What kept you sane? My husband's love
What political issue stirred you the most? Sorry - none
What was the best new person you met? Rhonda L.
What is a valuable lesson you learned in 2008? To truly forgive you must also forget

Would love to hear everyone elses!!

This little face..

2009-01-02T19:58:00.000-08:00

Is what I have been blessed to wake up to for the past 14 days... She is so much fun! She woke me up this morning at 5a with a temp. and complaining of a sore throat. We went to the peds clinic this afternoon and she has "strep throat" ... Bless her heart!! Please keep her in your prayers that she will be up and about going her usual 100 miles a hour! She & I are both counting down the days until summer so she can spend the entire summer with us again. We already have BIG plans!!!

Rollin' in the New Years at the In-Laws

2009-01-01T15:41:00.000-08:00

Jeff's parents called us yesterday morning and invited us to come spend New Years Eve with them. They bought all the stuff for Jeff to make homemade pizzas - which he did --- 10 of them!!! I'm so aggrivated at myself for not taking photos of them as they came out of the oven but the delicious armoa made me forget all about taking photos! There was 17 of us there total and we stuffed ourselves silly and watch t.v as we rolled in the New Year! Happy 2009 everyone - may it be full of many blessings!!!

I miss them -

2008-12-31T09:18:00.000-08:00

As I am sure many others are doing on this last day of 2008 - I woke up this morning thinking about all the things that have happened this year - as well as reflecting on the changes that have taken place the past 15 years & thru them all God has been in the mist.

3 of my grandparents have gone on to be with the Lord - Grandpa Hughes in 1994, Grandma Mag in 2000 & Grandma Emma in 2008. I don't think there is a day that goes by that I don't miss them. They were such a vital part of my life. Grandma/pa Hughes were married for over 50 years & I don't ever recall them speaking a harsh word to each other. The love they had for their children and grand-children was such a blessing.
Chance having enchaplitas in December 2001. Every year on 12/5, when I look at him I am humbled and on my knees not only recalling seeing "my baby" of 9 years on the ground in convulsions, on the ride to the hospital in a siren screaming ambulance w/ his heart stopping twice, in WRMC when the doctors telling us they don't think he will make it & angel flight from Ar Children's Hospital was on the way to get him, the flight crew arriving, them taking me in to see him before he left, being given the clothes that were cut off of him - being pushed out the door because even with all the tubes everywhere on him & the medicine that was enough for 3 grown men still wouldn't stop the seizures they had to use the paddles again, on the angel flight his heart stopping, FINALLY arriving in Little Rock, being taken into his room and seeing him on life support... Staying at ACH for a week while he fought to live...the love, support and prayers of our family, friends and community and the grace of God in hearing our pleas and allowing Chance to live.
Momma being diagnoised with "Small Cell Lung Cancer" on 7/18/05 being given months to live - my telling the doctors - "No one knows that but God" her living in Houston, Texas for 6 months under going extensive chemo. and radiation at MD Anderson. 12/31/08 God continues to answer our prayers and allowing momma to be here with us. She is such a source of inspiration to all those around her in her determation and in her Faith.
Tana & Kyla both graduating and moving out on their own. We miss them not being a part of our day-to-day life but are proud of them. We pray that God protect them and they have a burning desire to know him and lead their lives for him.
Kapriel being born on 4/12/02 & oh my the blessings we have been given from this little brown eyed beauty. Thank you God for your goodness!
Adopting 2 separate sibling groups set of 2 in 2001 and set of 3 in 2006. With them we have been blessed with many blessings as well as many challenges. They are proof of just how much a child needs love, nuturing and the basics of life and what can happen when these needs aren't met. We pray daily for them.
Jeff & I are coming up on 23 years of marriage - it's hard to believe that my high school sweetheart is STILL the man of my dreams. God has given me such a blessing and I praise him for this amazing life he has given me.

WOW-See reflecting & changes just all part of life...I am excited about 2009 & look forward to all that the new year will have to offer. May God bless you and yours & may the upcoming year be exactly what you hope it will be!

EEL SOUP

2008-12-30T16:32:00.000-08:00

Yep, Thats right --- Tonight for supper Jeff made us "EEL SOUP" needless to say as much as I love my precious husband - when it came time for this meal - I just wasn't hungry... Sorry honey but there is just no way... The kids on the other hand loved it - Need I say more...

A girl & her pap-paw

2008-12-29T09:05:00.000-08:00

My husband is a military man of 16 years - worked in heavy duty construction for several years and has been Transportation Supervisor for 12 years and can be as "tough as they come" but when it comes to his grand-daughter he turns to mush!!! She had him wrapped around her pinky the minute she was placed into his arms. Jeff was even the one that came up with the name "Kapriel" [pronounced cap-re-l] & her middle name is McKenzie. She follows him around and anytime he is in the kitchen cooking she is there right along beside him - "helping" I know his gentle love and patience will help her grow into a Godly woman someday. She so adores her pap-paw and what a blessing that is.

HOME-MADE ..... ????

2008-12-28T11:00:00.000-08:00

PIZZA is a HUGE hit at our house!!! The kids love it when Jeff makes it!!! Their favorite is CHEESE - the more - the happier they are!!!
Here is Jeff after he just took one out of the oven! Jeff loves to watch cooking shows, reads cookbooks constantly and we never know what he is going to make!

Cancer Changes Everything...

2008-12-26T08:29:00.001-08:00

We praise God that momma was here to celebrate Christmas with us again this year & we were blessed to be able to do it in their home. For the past 3 Christmas' she has been in the hospital. Momma's Cancer has certainly changed everything for our family but one thing it can not take from us is the love that we have for each other. It brought such joy to my heart to be able to watch her yesterday as she sat in her chair and looked around at everyone there. It was easy to see that her cup runneth over. Jeff & Daddy made our Annual Christmas morning breakfast & although it "wasn't the same as momma's" it was just as good! We all exchanged gifts but I think the best present for each of us was just to be there in my parents home, with them & being blessed! Thank you God for your mercy and for your understanding - we give you the honor and the glory for blessing us with such a special Christmas. We know our hope lies in you.

35 years of...

2008-12-25T20:25:00.000-08:00

What has now become a "Christmas Tradition" actually started 35 years ago this December when I was in the 5th grade and wanted to get my brother something for Christmas. Now being a 10 year old I didn't have alot in the way of spending money so I figured my baby brother would love something that was a cookie and had chocolate so I decided to make him a batch of

"No Bake Oatmeal Cookies" Well...Every Christmas since I have baked him a batch of these cookies and they are the first thing he expects in the way of a gift! :) It is such a blessing to see the little boy that was once my "bubby" still enjoy eating these cookies! Merry Christmas Bub - you are still my hero!

SANTA Couldn't WAIT

2008-12-23T13:37:00.000-08:00

Jeff has been hinting for several days that he needed a "Crock Pot" for a Christmas dinner that we were going to! I kept trying to put him off - knowing that Santa had already put one under the tree for him. Well, Nothing would do him but to go to Wal-Mart so I gave in and let him open one...

Here it is - the Crock-Pot. I know some may think that it is a little strange that Santa left one but dear hubby does all the cooking in our family - I'm sure Santa just knew that!!! :) The funny think is since "dad got to open one" all the kids thought they should get to as well! haha Sorry kids, but Santa said NO!!!

We've LOST

2008-12-21T19:42:00.000-08:00

Wednesday night - Kapriel's front tooth was "wiggly" Thursday Morning at the dental office for our 6 month check up Dr. Triplett said if she would eat an apple it would come on out..

Well, Instead of eatting an apple - Kap bit into her sandwich at lunch and swallowed the sandwich bite and the TOOTH!!!

She was so concerned that the "Tooth Fairy" wouldn't come since she didn't have the tooth to put under her pillow --- But that 'ole tooth fairy made a stop that night & left her a shinny new quarter anyway!!!

Cookie Pizza

2008-12-20T07:15:00.001-08:00

This is her Cookie Pizza when it was finished! Good Job Kapriel!

Putting the ingredients on - She choose mini marshmellows, gummy bears, green/red M&M's! We spread peanut butter on top of the choc. chip cookie before she put the "goodies" on it!

Getting the box ready to put the pizza in - we bought the box from Hawgtown, cut up pieces of Christmas Scrapbooking Paper, Kapriel glued them on! She loved doing it & it looked so cute!

Headband w/ Bow for Sale - $5.00

2008-12-17T15:27:00.000-08:00

I made 100 of these headband w/ flower bows & have about 30-40 left - I am selling them for only $5.00. These are selling at boutique stores and etsy for between $15.00 - $21.00. They make wonderful Christmas presents, birthday presents or just because! All little girls look so adorable in them. If you are interested in seeing them - please email me at tgraves@windstream.net, post a comment here or call me at 479-871-9146. I have many different colors to choose from!

Silly SUNDAY

2008-12-14T19:16:00.000-08:00

Today was an awesome day - all 8 of my kids were at the house + my grand-daughter. It was so nice to spend time with all of them. Kyla brought her 4 legged boys - Chuy & Sam to meet their new cousin Harper Grace. Jeff made a wonder dinner of your choice - home made beef stew with huge chunks of meat or thick pork chops, with a salad, corn & mashed potatoes. I wish I would have taken a photo - it was all so good! I made my Carmel/Cinnamon Apple Delight and it was scooped out of the pan in a hurry! It is soooo easy to make and there is never any left!!!

We are continuing to get to know Harper - she is just exactly what I wanted - a cuddle doggy! She follows me from room to room and when I sit down she jumps up on my lap! One of my hands has to be on her at all times or she will take her little head and put it under my hand and push it up! I AM TOTALLY LOVING IT!!! I told Jeff this is the best Christmas present that I have ever gotten from him -

Momma is still in the hosptial - they aren't sure what exactly is wrong with her. Please join me in prayer that he will once again provide us with another miracle. He is so good and I give him all the glory, the honor and the praise for his goodness.

It's a GIRL!!!!!!

2008-12-12T21:14:00.001-08:00

Introducing HARPER GRACE!!! She is bichon & my Christmas present from Jeff!!! She is such a soft cotton ball! We went shopping for her today - I mean a girl has to have all of the latest fashion right? She got 4 new dresses, 3 hair bows, a new pink/white collar and of course pink polish for those paws!!!! I bought her glass Sundae dishes for her food and water bowl which I am going to decorate with jews, tulle and ribbon!!! I mean a girl can't have to much BLING right!! She has been in my lap ever since we brought her home - I am in love!!! Merry-Merry Christmas to me!!!

My Daughter's - Daughter

2008-12-12T16:19:00.000-08:00

Even tho I have been a "G.G" [Groovy Grandma] for 6 years - it is still sometimes hard to believe! I mean it seems like only yesterday that Tana was 6 years old! Kapriel has so
many of Tana's facial expressions & personality that I am constantly telling her " You act just like your momma" - We are so blessed that Tana lets her spend each weekend with us! I understand that saying now "If I knew grandchildren were so much fun - I would have had them first" haha... Kapriel loves to do arts/crafts with me, work in the flower garden! She is so precious and Jeff and I definately enjoy spoiling her to the max when we have her with us! I honestly think that "Pap-Paw" is worse than I am! In this photo you can see how much they look alike - she even has all those freckles on her little face that Tana does! Thank you heavenly Father for allowing me the gift of being a mother and the blessings of being a "G.G"

"Baby Brother" No More

2008-12-08T16:46:00.000-08:00

Looking back thru the Thanksgiving photos I got quite a chuckle from this photo - these are my 3 oldest children - Tana Lynn [26], Kyla Nicole [22] & Chance Brentin [16]. I remember the day we brought "baby brother" home from the hospital the girls were soooo excited. They thought he was the grandest thing on Earth and if he even so much as started to cry one of them rushed to pick him up. Needless to say he quickly became very spoilt. I think they have started to realize that "baby brother" isn't really such a baby anymore - in this photo they are both having to stand on their tip-toes to give him a kiss! He loves his sisters & enjoys to this day all the attention that he gets from them. I'm so lucky to have these 3 awesome kids - Thank you God for the blessings!

MY GIRLS - MY WORLD

2008-12-02T15:17:00.000-08:00

Here is a photo of all "my girls" - Each different and unique! Each loved & my prize blessing!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KYLA

2008-11-28T07:44:00.000-08:00

It's hard to believe that 22 years ago today we were at Ft. Gordon Army Base in Augusta, Georgia and you were now officially 4 HOURS old -- flash foward 22 years and you are still just as beautiful as the day you were born! You had a head full of cole black hair and your eyes were sky blue. The nurses all commented on what a beautiful baby you were - You have brought us so much joy and we are so proud of you. I cherish the past 22 years - God couldn't have given me a more precious, loving, funny, silly, tender hearted girl than I have in you. I praise him for your goodness and for giving me the ultimate gift of being your "mother"... I love you Nic with all of my heart and I hope you have a birthday that is as special as you are!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING FROM THE GRAVES GANG

2008-11-27T15:38:00.000-08:00

Today was such a blessing! The weather was beautiful, the food was delicious, being with my family was priceless! We had 16 loved ones here with us to eat Thanksgiving Dinner! Here is our "annual Thanksgiving photograph" The WHOLE GANG!!!

9 Whole DAYS

2008-11-26T17:45:00.000-08:00

Kapriel goes to Fayetteville Schools and they are out all this week.

When I picked her up last Friday from school she informed me that she had "9 whole days with Gigi & Pap-paw" We have had a blast - Monday & Tuesday we went "Christmas Shopping" -- we spent most of the day Monday at the mall, Tuesday we went back and finished up! She wants to get "fixed up" everytime we leave to go somewhere - we bought 2 pair of shoes on Monday, 2 outfits for church, 2 pair of pants and 2 shirts. The girl has to shop in STYLE!!! :) I love spoiling her. She is only 6 but already has a true Diva sense of fashion!

The day she was born she had a whole head of curly hair - she loves to wear it down but with it being so long and curly it tangles so easy!

24 Pages Completed @ PMS WORKSHOP

2008-11-21T14:28:00.001-08:00

It's been a week since 4 "die-hard" scrapbookers came to the PMS Workshop! They scrapped their hearts out from 6p until midnight! They completed 24 pages and now have 1 whole year of holidays [1 holiday per month] ready for next years photos! They were all amazing. Thanks ladies for coming! I enjoyed it :)

Kyla & Ashley discovered they share the SAME birthday! Which is coming up on the 28th of this month! HAPPY BIRTHDAY EARLY GIRLS!

Simply Threads Has Been SOLD

2008-11-13T17:33:00.000-08:00

Due to health issues, the desire to spend more time with my family and my mother who has lung cancer - I have sold "Simply Threads".

The new owner, Kim Counts will be re-locating the store to 74 & 16 Junction uner the name "The Gypsy Junction". She is very excited & I know she will do an awesome job. She will be assuming all contracts and I hope you will join me in welcoming her as she continues to consign for you.

I have enjoyed the time I had in owning Simply Threads and all the consignors and customers that came into the store.

November consignments may be picked up from Kim on December 6th.

God Bless You,
Teresa

My "Dear" Hunters

2008-11-08T10:55:00.000-08:00

Here is a photo of my "dears" heading out to the deer woods! Run Bambi - Run!!!

FIREPROOF!!

2008-11-06T12:12:00.000-08:00

I just came from the Family Christian Book Store and Josh said that Fireproof will be in their store by the end of this month - if you haven't seen it-please do - it will totally rock your world! & if you are like me - I plan on getting in to watch over and over. Today I bought the "Love/Dare Book", "Fireproof your Life Book" & "Fireproof your Marriage - Couples Kit"

I think Jeff & I have a great marriage but thru God's word and this movie I realize that the devil is always out seeking to devour those who seek to honor & serve God's word - & its best not to ever be lulled into a false sense of security - but to instead always be on the look out & to keep God at the heart & soul of your marriage. Jeff & I can only be stronger by reading these books and using the couples kit.

I have been looking for Christmas cards the past few weeks but just couldn't find the "right" ones - today I found them and totally love the verse to them & I was blessed by getting them at 25% off! How awesome is that!!!

Kyla is coming over this afternoon to help me get the paper & kits put together for the PMS ]pajamas,munchies & scrapbooking] workshop next Friday! I am super excited about this. I really think it is going to be alot of fun!

Leave me a comment so I know you have been here! Thanks :)

SHHHHH....It's a SECRET

2008-11-03T21:30:00.000-08:00

For over a year I have been trying to find a "chow" puppy to buy for Jeff --

Our new "baby daughter" was born 2 weeks ago and will be coming home to meet her new daddy as a Christmas present next month. I can not wait to see his face -

I am gonna have to go shopping for this little diva - I am thinking that it is a must she have all the latest fashions from Target & of course some pink toe nail polish for those paws..

BUT please remember --- IT IS A SURPRISE!!! so don't tell!!! Merry CHRISTmas Jeff!!!

MY HOTTIE!

2008-11-01T14:53:00.000-07:00

Jeff & I have been married for 22 years and I still can't believe that out of all the women in the world he could have chosen to be his wife - HE CHOSE ME!

The day we were married I honestly didn't think I could ever love him anymore than I did that day BUT I was so wrong. Thru the years I have been blessed over and over again by this man by his strength, his desire to live a Christian life and lead his family in the same direction, his patience, the way his eyes light up when I walk into the room and that smile that lets me know that no matter how many times I do something crazy he still loves me. I can't imagine my life without him and I praise God everyday for placing us in the same path and for the precious life that we share!

So, To you my hottie as we are quickly approaching 23 years as Mr. & Mrs. Jeff Graves - I thank you for all the laughter, the love and the little things that you do for me on a daily basics.

THE GANG

2008-10-31T16:24:00.001-07:00

Because we are such a "large family" thru the years we have started being refered to as "The Gang" -- Although we have 8 kids total - these are the 6 that we still have left at home! They are: Chance Brentin 16 - [the youngest of our biological kids]

Riley Grace 14 [adopted 3 years ago]

Rhyver Faith 13 [adopted 3 years ago]

Addison Bailey12 [adopted 7 years ago]

Bren Parker 11 [adopted 7 years ago]

Ridge Jackson 11 [adopted 3 years ago]

This is their "First Day Of School" photo for the 2008-09 school year! I can't believe how fast they are growing up! We also have Tana Lynn 26 & Kyla Nicole 21!!! & of course our grand-daughter Kapriel McKenzie 6 years. YEP... I would adopt more, maybe someday! :) If that is where God leads us!

I'm so excited about the upcoming PMS Workshop! I've started planning the layouts & making the list of supplies! If you haven't responded yet - please do so - that way Iwill be sure to have enough kits for everyone [12 kits - 24 pages total] Won't it be great to have a whole year of holidays already scrapped - all they will need is your photos! So, YES.... EMAIL ME @ tgraves@windstream.net or call me at 871-9146 & tell me you are coming!!! I promise you will be glad you did!

We rarely have Trick or Treaters - I always buy a small bag of candy - just in case... That bowl full of all the goodies is such a temptation but I keep telling myself I want to be a size 12 more than I want the candy!!! Knowing my luck tho - I will gain just looking at it... :)

Well, Blogger friends - I'm off to plan more layouts - please leave me a comment so I will know you've been here & leave your blog address as well!

Boo!!

Happy Halloween

PMS PARTY

2008-10-29T18:33:00.001-07:00

Hey Girls,
I hope you are all doing well! Are you in need of some girl time & some
creative therapy? Are you behind in scrapbooking or have never gotten started
but want to learn? Would you like to compete 24 pages in one night? See the
details below & then let me know if you can join us! Please feel free to
forward this to any of your friends/relatives that might want to come with you!
Teresa

PMS PARTY
Pajamas,Muchies & Scrapbooking

Join us for a night full of creative
fun!
We will complete 24 scrapbook pages in ONE night
& have a whole lot of fun doing
it!

Friday, November 14th from 6:00 p.m. to midnight
Teresa Graves House
19208 East Black Oak Road Fayetteville
* I live appx. 3 miles past the Elkins School

Projects: 24 Scrapbook Pages [1 holiday theme per month]
Cost: $50.00 due at time of registration
MUST REGISTER BY SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 3RD!!!
Email me or call 871-9146 to reserve your spot - then you can mail me a check
YOU NEED TO REGISTER BY 11/3 so I can get all the supplies ordered!!!

ALL YOU NEED TO BRING IS ADHESIVE & SCISSORS!
There will be door prizes & some yummy munchies to enjoy!!
Don't forget to wear your pj's!!

Again, PLEASE feel free to forward this to anyone you know that likes to
scrapbook or might be interested!!! If you bring someone that has signed up -
your name will go in for a drawing!!!

This is alot of fun & when you leave you will have scrapbook pages for one whole
year of Holidays - all you need to do is add the photos!!!

Teresa Graves
P.O. Box 584
Elkins, Ar 72727
tgraves@windstream.net
871-9146

BOO!!! SPIDERS

2008-10-27T17:22:00.001-07:00

Cooler weather always brings out the "crafter in me"...

I made 25 of these spooky spiders for Kapriel to share with her classmates., put them in a boot box which I placed a black trash bag on the bottom, than placed "spider web" down - than came the creepy crawly spiders... Hopefully her classmates will like them! They have a candy york mint in the center of them!

Let me know what you think?

Sniffles,Strep-Throat, Broken Bone In My Back...

2008-10-27T16:45:00.000-07:00

This is a photo of Rhyver "after" she was cleaned up from her bike accident...

This is what "Strep Throat" looks like -- my poor baby had 103.2 temp. by the time we arrived at WRMC. I was so thankful that they got her back quickly. I get so nervous when the kids get sick. Wow-When it rains it pours... First we had Rhyver's bike accident,

last week Kapriel had an ear infection, I got home from the store Saturday and she was burning up so I rush her up to the e.r and find out she now has "strep throat", Riley was up all night throwing up & has a headache, Addison came home from school today with a headache and sick to her tummy! Please pray God will pour out his blessings of health on us.

I went to Dr. Knox office today and met with his nurse practioner - she was a very sweet lady... I left knowing that I have several things wrong w/ my back in addition to finding out I also have a broken bone in my back. I tried not to laugh when she told me - my first thought was yeah, I can't just have something simple - I have to get the whole kit and koodle as IF I have time for any of this... I was given a medical back brace, a "tens" unit that I wear 24/7 except of course when I am in the shower!!! 2 different types of pain medication which if I wasn't feeling bad before the 121.00 I handed out for it I sure would have been after! This is all part of their "pain management" program. I go back on 1/7 to see how I am doing and will discuss other options then. Please keep praying for me - I am at all cost trying to avoid surgery.

I am having a "PMS" [pajamas, munchies, Scrapbooking] party next month. We will do 24 pages of scrapbooking in 6 hours. IF you have never scrapped before or if you are at an advanced level this is something for everyone!!! I am planning it around a holiday of each month so when you leave you will have a complete year of scrapping and all you will need to add is your photos! IF you are interested in coming - please let me know. The cost is $50.00 which will cover all the materials for the kits, munchies etc. All you will need to bring that night will be your scissors and glue & wear your pajamas! We will also have drawings for doorprizes! IF you know of someone that would like to come - please share this with them. I went to one last week and had a blast! My email address is tgraves@windstream.com so please email me and sign up!!!

We are having revival at Living Hope Assembly this week on HY74 - it starts at 7p. If you get a chance to come - please do. Brother Bagley is awesome!

I AM BLESSED!!!

2008-10-21T17:47:00.001-07:00

Working on her very own Scrapbook Album - I've completed 8 for her [yes, she is only 6 - I am obsessed with this child I know]
Kapriel & "GIGI" in Branson @ Ride The Ducks. She loved it!

Kapriel & "Uncle Chance" @ Cold Stone Ice-Cream in Branson.

Meet "America's Next Top Model"

As most of you know - one of the most precious blessings in my life is my grand-daughter

Kapriel McKenzie... She spends every weekend with us and believe me when I say I count the days until Friday. She is such a joy - this summer she wanted to "go on vacation to Branson" As you can tell from the photos she loved it. After picking her up from school the other day, in a very mature voice she told me she decided where we were going on vacation again next year -- You got it BACK TO BRANSON!!

FALL DECOR...

2008-10-18T18:55:00.000-07:00

Here are some photos of the "Fall Decorating" I have done for this year!

HOSPITAL, ICU --Finally Home

2008-10-18T09:15:00.000-07:00

Jeff, Rhyver & I would like to Thank everyone for the prayers and visits during her stay in the hospital! It was quite an event. It started out with her spending the night with one of her friends on Saturday - Sunday was one of those relazing days until the phone rang - it was her friends mom telling us that Rhyver had a "bike wreck" now like most mommies I am sure I am thinking skinned "knees and elbows" this was NOT THE CASE!!! She ended up in ICU for 24 hours with bleeding on the brain - and spent the next 3 days in a regular hospital room. She is scrapped from head to toe, fractured elbow and jammed thumb. She is on the mend - Praise the LORD! We go back to the neurosurgeon the end of this month for a check up and our regular doctor this week as well. Again, Thank you for the kindness,love & prayers you have offered.

I have almost caught up on my scrapbooking! Yeah me!!! We finished remodeling the room last weekend and I love it. It is a sage green on the walls w/ a black trim- the curtains are burgendy w/ a gold swirl. We have our old kitchen table in the center of the room [seats 6 so come on over], Everything has a place and I just totally love it. There are moments when I feel a little guilty for having this "room to myself" BUT I honestly think it makes me a better person to be able to go in there and just have "me" time!

I begged Jeff to take me to the War Eagle Craft Fair today but it isn't anything he is interested in so I am determined to go next year. Anyone want to go with me???

Jeff has lost 30 pounds and is looking slim and trim - I am stuck at 14 w/ over 19 inches. I just have to keep reminding myself of my goal. I bought an adorable shirt that I have hanging on a hook in my room to keep me focused!

I enjoy reading everyones blogs and hope you enjoy reading mine as well. Please leave me a comment so I know you've been here!

God Bless!
Teresa

It's WAYYYYY Short Baby!

2008-10-07T17:03:00.001-07:00

I finally got the nerve - & it is S.h.o.r.t AND.... I TOTALLY LOVE IT!!! I had my hair cut ät "Alter Ego"today and Dianne rocked it! Thanks Dianne!

I made it thru the MRI yesterday after 3 tries...The lady was very patient with me - do you think it could have been she was scared after my "freak out" last week when I tried to have it done!! :) My doctor wasn't suppose to get the results until Wednesday or Thursday BUT apparently its bad enough that she was contacted today and I go see a neurosurgeon [Dr. Armstrong] on Monday, October 27th. Please be in prayer that God will heal me and I won't have to have surgery.

Thanks to everyone that came to my rubber stamping workshop last week! I had alot of fun & appreciated you all coming. Neeless to say - I had so much fun and I am now addicated that I have decided to sign up to become demonstrator! If you would like to come to the monthly workshops that I will be having - please let me know OR if you would like to have a workshop at your house and receive FREE stamps I would be happy to do a workshop for you! I'll be having a Stamp Camp probably the first weekend in Saturday when we will do a few make 'n takes as well as make 10 Christmas cards. If you are interestd in coming to this - zip me an email [tgraves@elkins.k12.ar.us] or give me a call!

This cooler weather lets me know that fall is upon us 'n I am loving it!

I weighed in yesteday and lost a total of 12 pounds for the month of September..Woot!! Woot!!! Only 36 more to go!!!

Decorating for Fall

2008-10-02T17:18:00.000-07:00

I've finished my "fall decorating" & really quite happy with the way it turned out. Normally I drag out all 7 plastic tubs of my Halloween Decorations and the whole yard, house and porch is decorated... I don't know if it is because I am getting ahum.. "older" or if my taste is changing but this year I went thru the tubs - boxed up the stuff I thought Kyla might want and the rest I chunked in the trash - I've decided less is more - and what I have out on the front porch and thru out the house with the exception of a few pieces can stay out thru the end of November and I LOVE the way it turned out. I'll post photos as soon as Ky comes over & shows me how!!

Today Kyla & I went to "Oops" - it was such a blessing to be able to spend time with her. I am so thankful that God has given me a daughter that is such a source of joy and pride! She got alot of really cute whimiscal stuff for Christmas decorations - I was "good"this time and only picked up a few items. Yeah me!!! I am trying to come up with a budget - okay - yes its the sticking to it part that I have the most problem with !!! haha

Tuesday night at church [FBC] we had a "Ladies Night Out" the food was delicious and after our meal we made a fall wreath. I really enjoyed visiting with other ladies at the church and seeing how talented they are! I can't wait until the next LNO! :)

Right now at "Simply Threads" we aren't taking any new consignors and with current consignors we aren't accepting any more clothing right now. Watch for more info. on this next month.

We had Direct T.V turned on Tuesday night - so I am getting my fair share of T.V time & of course it is tuned to HGTV! Anyone else addicated to this? During Christmas break I am planning to re-do our bedroom and bathroom. Right now our bedroom is painted in "Cowboy Boots Brown" & Jeff has always hated it so I think I am going to go with a creamy tan w/ black accents. I just love this time of year - I always wanted to drag out all of my crafting supplies and create sometime or make something old - new!!! :) I've promised to paint Kyla this huge shelf that I bought her in a zebra print -- right now it is so ugly --- when I brought it in the house - Jeff thought I was crazy - I explained my "plan"to him -- he still thinks I am nuts - but he'll see :)

Time for House Hunters so I better get in my comfy chair & start watching.

Going Down... SLOWLY

2008-09-29T11:11:00.000-07:00

At weigh in on Friday - I had lost 11 pounds and 19 inches. I'm excited but of course wish it would go down alot faster! Please keep me your prayers that I can stay strong and committed! My birthday is on Friday [10/4] & the holidays are coming up so I know I have a huge challenge before me.

We have 106 new headband bows in the store - for those of you that aren't sure what they are - they have the headband w/ a huge flower attached! Also, have them with smaller headbands and flowers. I think we beat almost anyone's prices - at $5.00 each. Come and check them out!

This cooler weather is making it hard for me-I want to be able to stay at home and work on our family scrapbooks and do arts & crafts. I've started doing personalized totes and will post some of them here soon! I just finished one order for a 6 year old playmate of my grand-daughter's with her name Sarah in zebra print material & a fusha pink bow. She loved it!

The fam has all been busy- the kids are enjoying the evenings riding on their bikes, playing freze tag & just hanging out. I miss those youthful days... We closed our pool last weekend...the diving board & slide look so lonely hanging out above the tarp. Just 7 more months & we'll be spashing around in it again!

Guess, I better get back to scrapping - I'll try to post some photos soon!

A BUSY DAY....

2008-09-20T16:56:00.000-07:00

We had a busy day at our family clothing resale/consignment store "Simply Threads" today - we had alot of "new"customers in and it was awesome to get to meet them! I really appreciate everyone that comes into the store and has been supportive of it! If you haven't been in lately, please stop by and check us out. We carry all the name brand clothing "American Eagle", "Tommy H", "Gap", "Old Navy""Hollister", "Aber. & Fitch" just to name a few. We get alot of comments on how reasonable our prices are. We carry clothing from newborn to adult plus in addition to maternity! Hope you'll stop by soon! Tell us you read about it on the blog and we'll give you "10%"off your purchase.

I also wanted to give a shout to - 2 very special people this week...

1. My husband - without him I couldn't do all that I do...He has supper on the table every night when I get home & just makes me feel like a princess every day. Thanks JAG - You are such a blessing.

2. My daughter, Kyla who has stepped up to the plate everyday this week and helped me even tho I knew she would rather be doing something else. You rock my world!

I am having a "Angel Rubber Stamping "workshop on Saturday, October 4th @ 7p at my house if anyone would like to come! The instructor is Tonya Williams - I've seen some of her work and it is awesome!

Have a good weekend!

Back Pain At It's Worst

2008-09-18T15:40:00.000-07:00

Okay, All my life I have never thought twice about moving a piece of furniture, scooting something over, lifting something but here I am at the wonderful óle age of 40 something and have a "bulging disc"in my lower back that has knocked me for a loop. I noticed some pain back in July & told myself it would get better. I went to the chiro. several times and it did improve but school started and who has time to go 3 times a week -- NOT ME--- so once again I decided to endure the pain. Well, Tuesday morning when I got up the pain was so severe that as I hobbled into the bathroom I felt a "shift"lost feeling in my left leg and fell. I knew then I was in serious trouble. I called my doctors office and got in at 11. When they took me back for x-rays and the tech. told me to lay down on the "bed"I was thinking this man was crazier than I am... there was NO way I could lay down because not only is it next to impossible the getting up is a miracle. He assured me I could do it ... My doctor told me I have a bulging disc - gave me a shot in the back, sent me home with a muscle relaxer and hydcodine. Needless to say I slept thru most of the next 48 hours.... I feel some better today but certain moves or turns reminds me all is not well. Those of you that know me know that I am not a very patience person -- whooo this is a lesson in learning for me. Please pray that God will send his healing mercies soon...

The kids are doing great in school - It's hard to believe that Chance is a junior. We have kids in the 5,6,7,8,9 & 11 grade. We are told that we need to adopt again to fill up the 10 spot. I never thought I would say it but I don't feel the desire to adopt anymore. God has blessed us with 8 & as I grow older I am ready for some me time and time alone with my precious husband.

Is anyone out there interested in meeting at my house once a month to Scrapbook? or join a scrappin'club... I signed up to be a Creative Memories consultant & would love to have you come to the house to scrap once a month or do a workshop yourself. There is no charge to join the crop - just a time to devote to all those photos that are piling up!!! Call me at 871-9146 if you are interested!

Mom is feeling some better this week... PTL - She goes back to have a pet scan done next month. Please pray for her & that the results come back as a Praise to how wonderful of Lord is.

The diet is still going strong...Jeff has lost around 18 pounds - I hate the food we have to eat but I haven't cheated just choke it down but I've only lost 9. If there ever was a diet for cheeseburgers or pizza - I think I could master that one... haha :)

Until next time... May your day be full of God's blessings

Another HOT Summer Day

2008-07-25T20:22:00.000-07:00

Wow- It is sooo hot!! The kids are sure making use of our swimming pool! I don't know which they like best - the diving board or the slide. I've gotten some awesome pictures which will make great scrapbooking pages.

Jeff & I started our "diet"on Monday - it is great having someone to keep me "on track" ... Dawn Mabry has been an inspiration to me - just in reading her blogs and seeing her "before and after"pictures -- THANK YOU DAWN!

Kyla & I have been busy getting ready for our big "Midnight Madness & Back to School"sale on Friday, August 1st from 9p until midnight at my resale/consignment family clothing store "Simply Threads" It has been an answered prayer for me to be able to open this store. Jeff has been so great and understanding when I get home past 7, building racks, having dinner on the table, helping the kids with the housework and taking over my job as the lawn mower... I honestly couldn't do it without him. We have been married for 22 year & I love him more everyday!

The kids got back from War Eagle Camp a few weeks ago & as usual had a blast...They were gone for 2 weeks ... They leave again for Green Valley Bible Camp on Sunday and will be gone for a week. It is a camp that my brother & I use to go to when we were in school and a camp that Kyla went to for 3 years. The girls went last year for the first time and had so much fun - this year the boys will be going as well. Chance will stay here as he has to work and we will have Kapriel with us but it will be a change from having only 2 kids in the house each night INSTEAD of the 7 we usually do!

My mom had her last chemo. treatment on Wednesday & she had a "pet scan"done today - we will get the results from it next Tuesday. Please keep her and daddy in your prayers.

I had an Pampered Chef party last night and the consultant - Carla Laing was once again awesome... I usually have a show once a year but decided to do one in the summer instead of the fall.